I hope that this will help you realize that the different accounts of this marvelous event are truly an asset in our understanding of the gospel! (For more about the four accounts, see this article.)
As you might know, Joseph was living in Palmyra, New York, which was at the time was experiencing "an unusual excitement on the subject of religion" (Joseph Smith - History 1:5 aka the 1838 account). Joseph was getting very nervous as he saw so many different religions contending for converts, and really feared for his own soul's salvation. In Our Search for Happiness, M. Russell Ballard presents an imaginary discussion with Joseph and his family around the dinner table:
"Jesus was baptized," Joseph may have reasoned, "so that means I need to be baptized, too. Mother's minister has invited me to be baptized at his church. But Father's minister says that I won't go to heaven if I'm baptized as a Presbyterians. Then the Baptist minister tells me that he's the only one in town who knows anything about baptism. And now I don't know what to do. Can we just let them all take turns baptizing me? Or do I have to pick one of them? And if I do, which one should I pick?
While that may not be exactly how it happened, the depth and sincerity of young Joseph Smith's questions were real.See, as Joseph entered into the grove that Spring morning of 1820, he had no intention restoring a church. He wasn't planning on being visited by deity. He simply was